DEMURENESS & DECORUM
a poetic excerpt...
“In the soft glow of morning light, a young brown woman arranges her delicate lace collar, the fabric whispering against her skin like an unshared secret. The term "demure" drifts through her mind, echoing in the currents of social media in phrases like "Very mindful, Very Demure." Perhaps, it is a reminder that in a world bursting with bold declarations and loud colors, there exists a beauty in restraint. OR it informs that to be demure is not merely to be shy; it’s to embody a quiet strength, an elegance that speaks volumes without uttering a word. A concept worth exploring, beyond the bounds of a social media trend.”
a perspective...
Decorum, a word steeped in history, conjures images of proper conduct and refined manners. It whispers of the ways in which women have been expected to present themselves—composed, graceful, and always aware of their surroundings. and let’s talk about it! This notion has often dictated that decorum defines the feminine nature, enforcing stereotypes that women must adhere to a set of rules regarding behavior and appearance.
Bullshit.
Because yet, as time moves forward, so too does the understanding of modesty. It evolves from rigid expectations to a more nuanced interpretation, one that embraces authenticity while still respecting the art of presence. Today, many challenge the conventional notions of what it means to uphold decorum, recognizing that it can coexist with individuality.
In both history and modern society, decorum reflects the ongoing tension between societal norms and personal expression. Women are navigating this landscape, redefining what it means to be poised and dignified in ways that resonate with their true selves—finding balance between tradition and modernity in their journeys.
She scrolls through her feed, seeing images of women embracing this gentle spirit, each post a celebration of subtlety and grace. The hashtag transforms into a movement, where being demure is redefined—embracing vulnerability while standing firm in self-assurance. It’s a recognition that softness can coexist with power, allowing femininity to blossom in its own unique way.
